my father is aggressive. my mother is passive aggressive/useless. when I state an opinion that does not match his, my dad uses personal attacks and my mother acts only as a bystander. she will then approach me hours afterwards to tell me she agrees with me but doesn’t want to fight with him so kept quiet. this repeats. every. fucking. time. fuck. I can’t stand this place. they are the reason why I can’t stand passive aggression and aggression in such an extreme way that i turn immediately to dislike. I’ve trained myself to hate both these extremes.